Inimitable Family

What is a family?

    If we refer to our family it talks about a group of people who are related to you by blood or marriage. Family is used in many ways. It can mean a "household", or the people we live with, or it can refer to a partner and the children we are raising together.

    I came from a middle class family with six siblings. Our family is different from others in terms of  relationship that we have as siblings. We have individual differences that sometimes lead us into misunderstanding and trouble. When we talk about my parents they are not that typical parents who  show their love and care for us in words but definitely more in actions. Our family get bigger as you can see in the pictures. I have many niece. If i am not mistaken this picture was taken last 2020, we celebrated Christmas.  As we grow older having  our own family and own responsibility it is rare for us to be completed again. Celebrating Christmas with my family is the best moment to treasure. The smile in their faces ,the laughter, the corny jokes, those  are the moment that i missed.  

  Though sibling separate their ways, I understand that and i want you to know that I really missed and loved you. A simple family with a simple dreams and goals in life is like a dream come true. As i look back those days  how my mother take good care of us from birth until now all I can say that mothers love is genuine and eternal. The way she took care of us is the same as the way she take care to her grandchildren now. Family is our support system whatever we do in time of trials, difficulties in life  they are always in our side to guide, to protect  and to comfort us. They give us strength and courage that  life must go on never give up whatever circumstances that we encounter. As much as possible if we have time to gather together we do it because we treasure every moment that we spend together.  

Building my own family is not easy. A single mother by choice is difficult task. I choose to be a single mother for I think almost 9 years, because its too much affect my emotional aspect of a human being. I tried to fix as much as I can but its hard and difficult since I am the one who keep on fixing it. I am happy with my status right now, spending quality time with my daughter. If we had free time we spend time playing and watching movies. If I am  busy with other stuffs I let my daughter spend time with their cousins. I know that playing with their cousins  they having fun and they enjoyed their company.

To be honest, speaking of family the first thing that come to my mind is how I am going to share? I can't express what I am trying to say if I will not share not totally the whole story at least you have that little idea how come my own family like this or why I ended up to be a single mother. As what the song says "there is always a rainbow after the rain. Right now together with the new member of the family, all I can say that I am happy, my heart is happy likewise my daughters' are happy because I found the man who accept me for who am I despite of what happen to me. He treat my daughters' as its  own children. I am lucky to have him as my partner in life. I can't take a video for this family vlog since we are far right now. My parents also are in Manila that's why I choose to post a picture. The word that I will never forget that my parents told me is that, "whatever your decision in life is always pray and ask for guidance from up above because if it is his will it will give it to you. Stay humble as you are, what you've experienced through this year it will serve as your lesson to be learned. Life must go on, achieved your goals and dreams in life. It is quite long but it is very important for me because I feel that I am important to them too.